Becoming an EFT Practitioner

I decided to take EFT and NLP practitioner courses to help myself. During the course, something lit up inside me when I saw how these methods could help others. I got great feedback from the people I worked with, and my current clients.

I saw how EFT helped me. I see how it helps my clients. And I would like to use methods such as EFT and NLP to help others deal with the shit that has been haunting them for years.

I wish to use my life experience—being exposed to violence, aggression, abuse, manipulation, and God knows what else—and my ability to listen to these stories without becoming overwhelmed, to help others. The thought of helping others to deal with their negative experiences warms my heart.

I know how difficult it is to go through life repeating patterns learned in childhood without even being aware of them.

I know that many people simply don't have the capacity to listen to stories like the ones I've lived through.

I know how lonely it feels to carry all of that on your own.

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I know how difficult it is to become aware that something is not OK. That maybe one or two unsuccessful relationships are OK, but 5… or 6… and that one there… the most horrible one… If it’s repeating and the only constant is me (or you), while everything else changes (men/women, people, places, countries, work), and a negative thing keeps repeating — we have a negative pattern somewhere…

Maybe you, like me, have been told your whole childhood and much of your adult life that “It’s you, not me”, leaving you feeling guilty of all the misery of the world?

I am trying to find my way to let others know I am here. I don't post videos of myself crying when doing physical exercises. I have done many exercises in my life, and none of them even touched my trauma 🤔.

I don't want to have Youtube videos telling others how to THEORETICALLY deal with negative experiences from their childhood, or analyse the minds of abused people. When I was that person with trauma, those videos only made me feel sad. I felt I was helpless. Not only were my problems pointed out to me, and how damaged I was, but I was left alone with that information.

I have lived through things that you might relate to. I survived them. Maybe I've healed many of them. Maybe just enough. Or maybe I've only touched the tip of the iceberg. I don't know how deep the holes are that my parents made in me.

Sometimes, I get tired of finding yet another one. But most of the time I am determined to dig in. It gets easier each time. EFT calms me down when I think or talk about those wounds. None of the three psychologists I worked with was able to achieve that.

I am very much aware that I was severely programmed by my parents and family, but I am alive. And this is my expertise I want to share with others — it is possible to heal from your childhood nightmares, and EFT has helped me enormously. Not only with that...

There were serious consequences in my life stemming from that toxic environment my family created. Sexual assault, toxic relationships, self-sabotage, feelings of not belonging and feeling different, a sense of unworthiness, financial difficulties and suicidal thoughts... the list is long. Some points I've already crossed out. Others are still on the list. I wonder what else is there that I don't know about? 😉

If you’re willing, have a look at my website and get to know me. Read more about EFT and how I might be able to help.