Do you feel that your dad or mum is a pain in the ass?
And makes your adult life miserable?
You believe that they are the source of your unhappiness and emotional pain. Stress and frustration. Always ready to irritate, criticise you and point out your failures.
You feel like a target of your dad's or mum's outbursts of anger and rage. When you see and hear them, your pulse goes flying through the roof.
​Do you question yourself, “What have I done to deserve it?” Do you question your sanity and normality of your parent's behaviour?
And yet, you still have Sunday dinners with your parent and try to please him/her...
Do you recognise these behaviours in your mum or dad?
Do you struggle with the following in your adult life?
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the feeling of powerlessness and hopelessness,
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the feeling of not belonging and being different,
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the feeling of being unsuccessful and not deserving,
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the fear of conflicts, ergo pleasing others,​
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suppressing anger,
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the feeling of shame, guilt for certain situations taking place, and responsibility for taking part in them.
​If your answers are "Yes!", then you have found the right place.
Welcome to the place for adult children of parents who are
Emotionally
unstable
Borderline Personality Disorder
Emotionally
unavailable
Narcissistic​
Emotionally
immature
Welcome to
RaisedByBorderline.com
I wanted my mum to stop vomiting that rage, anger, sarcasm, criticism, and disrespect onto me… To stop behaving the way that made me feel horrible about myself, emotionally burned out and frustrated… And show me love and understanding instead. Compassion and support.
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But I couldn't change her. I couldn't make her see me and love me.
Hi. My name is Marta, and I was raised by a borderline mum.
I hated my life when I was a child. I struggled in my adult life. I had countless toxic relationships that were just one of the consequences of my tough childhood. But I always had that “I won't give up on myself” feeling inside of me.
I heard, “Get over it!”, “You're sensitive!” I heard, “I am your mum. I gave birth to you. You should be grateful.” And I did love her, so I felt I had to accept the toxic relationship that left me feeling lonely, cold and powerless.
I have tried traditional therapy with psychologists, yoga, breathing, meditation, but the toxic people, unsafe situations, emotional pain, emptiness, and making bad life choices kept coming back.
Do you feel that asking for help is difficult or maybe even shameful? You're here! Congratulate yourself for having the courage to take this first step!
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